"I Shaved My Legs For Nothing"

My freshman year in college I remember I had just gotten out of math class and I was on my way back to my dorm room, and I struck up a conversation with a girl and I got her number.

We chatted for a couple of days getting to know each other, and she told me she had a boyfriend back in her hometown. Eventually she invited me over to her dorm room.

I was nervous as hell when I got there. Knowing that she had a boyfriend, I figured I'd play it cool.

Like most nice guys, I figured if I just showed her nice I was that she would eventually make the first move and let me know she's interested.

So we sat there in her room, just the two of us....and I didn't try to initiate anything. I sat there thinking that if she was really interested, she'd make the first move.

After about 2 hours I ended up saying I needed to go back to my room. She had this weird look on her face and said okay, and I left.

I sent her a text the next day, but I didn't hear back from her. Another week went by, and I still didn't hear from her.

2 weeks later I saw her walking around on campus and I said hello. She said "wassup" but barely made eye contact as she kept walking. I called her later that day to ask if I'd done something wrong.

She asked why did I care since I'm obviously not attracted to her.

𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗱....𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗜 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿????

Then she told me how she remembered from our conversation that I had a favorite perfume that I loved smelling on women.

I didn't know it, but before I came over she went to the store, bought a bottle of that perfume and sprayed it all over her room hoping it would turn me on.

So because I sat there all night waiting for HER to make the first move (like most introverted guys/nice guys), she assumed I wasn't interested in her.

I apologized and said I'd come back over, but it was too late.

She left me with these parting words: "𝗜 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲𝗱 𝗺𝘆 𝗹𝗲𝗴𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴!!!"

Then she hung up on me.

I learned two things that night.

When a woman shaves her legs expecting to get laid and it doesn't happen, it's a BIG deal.

If you're waiting for a woman to make the first move, 99 percent of the time it ain't happening.

Even in the age of consent guys, you're still expected to make the first move.

I know a lot of Nice Guys who are reading this right now who have been in situations like this before. You're with someone you really like and you think they like you as well, but because you're terrified of rejection you wait for her to make the first move.

Guys if the thought of making the first move fills you with dread or anxiety, let's hop on a call and figure out what's really holding you back!